Muslim Honor Code: A Runaway, an Axe, a Murder

With thanks to CNN, we highlight this story about a teenage runaway who was almost hacked to death in order to protect her family’s “honor”:

Meena Gul knew she was committing the ultimate crime according to strict Islamic customs — running away from her husband with another man — but she also knew she didn’t want to continue living the life she had since her marriage. [Gul was forced into wedlock at age 12 with a much older man.]

“I’d tried to kill myself with poison several times but it didn’t work. I hated my life and I had to escape. When I ran away I knew it would be dangerous. I knew my husband and family would be looking for me but I never thought this would happen. I thought my future would be bright,” she says.

Days later her older brother tracked them down. Armed with an ax, he hacked to death Gul Meena’s friend, and then struck his own sister 15 times — cutting open her face, head and parts of her body.

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The Little Girl Who Inspired This Blog

I’d had the idea for Moral Compass since early 2011, I think. Maybe it was earlier than that, but that’s when I registered the domain name and asked an illustrator to create the rotating banners at the top.

But you know how it goes. Life got busy, clients called, my family needed a husband and a dad, we adopted two dogs, and on and on.

Then, in February, I learned of this little girl:

Her name was Lama al-Ghamdi. She was five. This is what her very religious father did to her:

A prominent Saudi Arabian preacher who raped his 5-year-old daughter before torturing her to death has been spared a death sentence or even a lengthy prison term after agreeing to pay “blood money” to the slain girl’s mother. [He] was arrested last November and charged with brutally raping and torturing 5-year-old Lama al-Ghamdi to death. According to a medical report, the little girl had been tortured with whips, electric shocks and an iron. She had broken arms, a broken back and a fractured skull.

The man, Fayhan al-Ghamdi, is a respected Islamic scholar, and a regular commentator on issues of religion and morality for several Muslim TV channels. He’s a bit of a holy man, really. See for yourself:

According to social worker Randa al-Kaleeb, Lama had been raped “everywhere.” Agence France-Presse reports that hospital staff told the girl’s mother that her “daughter’s rectum had been torn open and the abuser had attempted to burn it closed.”

By the grace of Allah the Mighty, the Merciful, al-Ghamdi received just a metaphorical rap on the knuckles, “spared a death sentence or even a lengthy prison term after agreeing to pay blood money.”

Lama was the spark that finally lit my fuse. She is why you are visiting this blog right now, and why I spend countless hours updating it with the latest examples of religious hypocrisy and evil.

Moral Compass is dedicated to what I call, with a wink, “calibrating the faithful.” It’s a chronicle of religious wickedness — one that, by its nature, pokes fun at the delusional claims by people of faith that a belief in God equips them with superior moral standards.

You can help, if you wish, by sending suggestions for new posts.

My thoughts frequently drift to Lama al-Ghamdi. She continues to be an inspiration.

The only reason I’m sorry there is no heaven, is that Lama sure didn’t get much of a life on earth.

And the only reason I’m sorry there is no hell, is that I find it oddly gratifying to picture Lama’s father and his ilk spending eternity immersed in a lake of fire.

Amen. I Mean, Right On.

Via BrightRock.

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Easter Joy: Beavis and Headbutt in Church Brawl

A church on Easter Sunday — what better place and time to start beating and headbutting your fellow man?

During church services on a day that celebrates the resurrection of Jesus Christ, two men in a Kendall Park (NJ) church clearly missed the message about forgiveness. According to South Brunswick Police, a physical altercation occurred towards the end of mass on Easter Sunday at St. Augustine’s of Canterbury Church.

Police said the incident involved two men, both in their 40’s, who knew each other prior to attending the church services.

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Shortly before 1 p.m.,

…one of the individuals was standing in line for Communion when the other man came up behind him, according to police. A quick physical altercation then occurred, with one man headbutting the other.

One of the brawlers suffered a cut lip, the other got off with a bruise.

[image via worldsbestever]

Saudi Court May Order Man’s Spinal Cord Severed

From YNet, with thanks to BangsNaughtyBits for the tip:

A Saudi court has ruled that a man who paralyzed his best friend should now himself be crippled in an ‘eye-for-an-eye’ punishment, the Saudi Gazette reported this week.

Ali Al-Khawahir has been in prison since stabbing his friend in the backbone 10 years ago, when he was only 14 years old. According to the Saudi Gazette, a court has ruled that the accused should now be “fully paralyzed” unless he pays the compensation demanded by the victim. Originally the victim asked for two million Saudi riyals ($448,500), but this sum has since been reduced to one million Saudi Riyals ($225,500), according to Mail Online.

It is not clear how the punishment would be carried out. However it has been speculated that the victim’s spinal cord would be severed.

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The news comes one year after the Saudis began thinking about abolishing beheadings — not because they think there’s anything wrong with beheadings, you dig, but because the country is suffering from a worrisome lack of qualified swordsmen.

The oil-soaked desert kingdom beheads about 70-80 people every year. The highest-profile Saudi head removal in recent years involved a Sri Lankan maid, Rizana Nafeek, who received the death penalty for smothering a Saudi baby in her care in 2005. She maintained her innocence and explained that the infant choked to death. Early last year, despite international protests, the Saudis executed her anyway.

According to the International Business Times (IBT), Nafeek’s plight

…refocused the spotlight on the increase in cases of abuse of migrant workers, which is a disturbing phenomenon In Saudi Arabia and across the Gulf. Women in often wealthy households are confined to the family home for much of their lives, with complete authority over foreign staff, who are seldom literate and paid little. Maids often have their passports confiscated by their employers, and are treated as indentured labour.

If the domestic workers get in any kind of trouble with the law, justified or not, their legal challenges can be insurmountable. IBT claimed last year that around 50 foreign maids are on death row in Saudi Arabia. If henchmen with broadswords continue to be scarce, the inmates will probably face a firing squad instead.

If it were me, I might prefer that to being surgically paralyzed.

Do Saudi doctors swear a Hippocratic oath? Would severing a man’s spinal cord be in accordance with it? If not, the Saudi justice department could always hire Nazrul Islam, a young U.K. thug who used a knife on Cambridgeshire student Oliver Hemsley and turned him into a quadriplegic.

‘Where Do You Get Morals, If Not From Religion?’

It’s a frequently asked question when theists encounter an atheist: How can people tell right from wrong if they don’t believe in God?

I’m tempted to reprise Penn Jillette’s answer and leave it at that:

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But here’s a nicer way of describing it (it’s going to take a few paragraphs though): We can’t really thrive and advance as individuals. There’s a reason most people don’t become hermits. We need others. Not just to procreate, but to collaborate with, for all kinds of practical purposes.

Thousands of years ago, in times predating today’s religions, we joined forces with others to build hunter-and-gatherer communities. If you weren’t a helpful part of such a group, you didn’t remain in good standing. You might’ve even been exiled. So there are clear reciprocal advantages to sharing, and to helping others, and to working/fishing/hunting together.

Those who violated the social contract would find themselves without food if food got scarce, and without care if they got wounded or sick. That’s pretty much the mother of all incentives to be good.

Being good, in that context, means don’t murder, don’t rape, don’t steal, don’t make others suffer needlessly, and don’t be a selfish pig; and do try to treat others as you would like to be treated. Those were the general rules and expectations in the millennia before Christianity, Islam, Judaism, et cetera; they’re still perfectly valid today.

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I’ll add another observation, going from the sociological to the purely personal. Because I don’t believe in god(s), I have no confessor or savior to wash away my sins. If I fuck up, it’s on me. My misstep will haunt me. My guilt will gnaw at me. No shortcuts to (self-)forgiveness are available to me. I can’t go to church to pray and tell Jesus how sorry I am, and then walk out with both the pastor’s blessing and with the knowledge that Christ, who died for my sins, has already forgiven me.

No — I’m responsible for what I did.

That’s good, because it’s a very powerful preventative. As unlikely as it may sound to the religious, not believing in a god, for me, is what helps immensely to keep me on the straight and narrow. I think I might be a worse person if I could buy cosmic forgiveness for absolutely anything with just a few heartfelt prayers.

That doesn’t mean I think you are probably a bad person if you believe in God. Not at all. I’m just describing what works for me.

[cartoon via Freethinkers of East Texas]

Muslim Vandals Attack Dawkins Website

This is currently the front page of Richard Dawkinswebsite (Wednesday 10:30 EST.)

Islamist goons think they have the right to prevent others from speaking, even more so than other stripes of religious nannies.

As much as they say they abhor swine … ironically, to me, that’s exactly what these people are.

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Bearded Woman Attacked For Crucifying Jesus

This happened in Brighton, England, last Sunday. From the Argus newspaper:

A beard-wearing woman was attacked as she crucified Jesus. The crime of Passion took place as the woman played a priest [named Caiaphas] during the open-air retelling of the Easter story.

Brighton actress attacked during _crucifixion_ of Jesus (From The Argus)

Jeanie Civil’s attacker ripped her beard from her face and punched her during a performance of The Passion of Christ in Brighton on Easter Sunday. He yelled “Shame on you!” before Mrs Civil’s fellow cast members, dressed as soldiers, held him back.

The victim said she wondered if the man was an ardent Christian who disliked her character’s actions against the savior. “He might be an ardent Christian, or anti-Jewish,” she offered. 

In the New Testament, Caiaphas is the Jewish high priest, appointed by Romans, who is thought to have organized the plan to kill Jesus.

[tip of the thorny crown to Dangerous Minds; image via The Argus]

Clergy Crime Roundup

All stories from the past 48 hours only.

• A former youth pastor in Alabama was sentenced to 10 years in prison in the sexual abuse of a child. [link]

• Another former pastor, also from Alabama, has been charged with sexual torture and abuse of an 8-year-old girl whose parents attended his church. [link]

• A Houston-area youth pastor has been sentenced to five years in prison after pleading guilty to sexual assault of a child and online solicitation of a minor. [link]

• A New Mexico Catholic priest is accused of molesting a young boy in the late 1980s. [link]

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• A Hindu priest in India allegedly sexually assaulted a girl suffering from smallpox. The girl had come to the temple to seek a holy man’s blessing that she hoped would cure the disease. [link]

•  A former Catholic priest in Oregon was sentenced to over six years in prison on Monday after pleading guilty to multiple charges of sexual abuse on a 12-year-old boy. [link]

There’s more, much more, but that’s all I have time for right now.

[image via madmikesamerica]

What’s the Matter With Pennsylvania?

No disrespect intended to the people of Pennsylvania, but honestly: Since I started this blog, I’ve noticed that no state outdoes Pennsylvania in the number of news-reported sex attacks by clergy. What’s that about?

I don’t live anywhere near the Keystone State (sometimes called the Quaker State, take your pick), so it’s probably not a matter of Google reading my IP address and serving up search results that emphasize the state.

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By the way, I have no known biases against Pennsylvania. I’ve traveled through it many a time, and feel neither exceedingly positive nor terribly negative about it.

I’m also not trying to suggest a link between religiosity and crime; if that were my goal, I’d try another state, because Pennsylvania is the tenth-least-religious state in the union, according to this 2008 Gallup poll.

My observation regarding sex crimes in Pennsylvania is entirely anecdotal, based on just two months of closely following news of religious crimes, so it may not translate into actual statistics. If there is a correlation, I doubt I’d be able to explain it, but I’m inviting anybody with a decent theory to chime in.

Priest Flees After Alleged Shrine Sex Attack

Father flees best:

A new priest-abuse lawsuit accuses church and local authorities of letting a Philadelphia-area priest flee to Poland during a stalled investigation. The lawsuit says the priest assaulted a woman last year while counseling her at a Roman Catholic shrine in Bucks County. The woman volunteered at Our Lady of Czestochowa in Doylestown.

The Associated Press is not naming the accused priest because he could not be reached for comment. He belongs to the Pauline Fathers, a religious order at the shrine. A woman who answered the phone Wednesday said the Pauline supervisors were “in prayer” and not available for comment.

Rabbi, Do You Copy?

And here I thought that Thou shalt not steal was a revered commandment by Jews as as well as Christians. From Haaretz:

France’s Chief Rabbi Gilles Bernheim acknowledged that he plagiarized several parts of his latest book. Bernheim said Tuesday in a statement that parts of the 2011 book “Forty Jewish Meditations” were taken from other sources.

Loose translation of the headline: "We have lost our understanding of what it means to be moral."

Bernheim before the scandal (condemning gay marriage): “We have lost our understanding of what it means to be moral.” Thanks for that, Rabbi.

Even more disturbing may be that when confronted with his plagiarism, he lied about what he did — and smeared a dead man in doing so.

The affair started in early March when the Strass de la Philosophie blog revealed that a passage on hasidic exegesis from Bernheim’s work was almost identical to an interview of the philosopher Jean-Francois Lyotard that appears in the 1996 book “Questioning Judaism” by Elisabeth Weber.

Soon after the disclosure, Bernheim said some of the meditations in his book were transcripts of lessons he gave in the 1980s while he was a chaplain for French Jewish students. He said the lessons were often recorded and that copies of his personal notes were distributed to the listeners, implying that Lyotard, who died in 1998, plagiarized him and not the opposite.

His version was contradicted by Weber, who interviewed Lyotard and specified that the philosopher answered her questions without a single note.

Bernheim still hasn’t come clean. While nominally accepting responsibility for the plagiarism in a “the bucks stops here” kind of way, he insists that he didn’t know about the pilfered passages in his book; he was hoodwinked by his “ghostwriter,” he claims. Reminds me of how copyright infringers on the web always claim that it’s the webmaster’s fault.

We will learn the truth, I think, especially now that the investigation is getting crowd-sourced following allegations that Bernheim has been at this for some time:

Jean-Noel Darde, a senior lecturer at Paris 8 University, suggested on his website that Bernheim also might have plagiarized books by other authors such as Elie Wiesel, Jean-Marie Domenach and Charles Dobzynski.

[image via la-croix.com